{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"Inner Journey with Dr. Saliha Afridi","home_page_url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm","feed_url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/json","description":"Speaking about topics that include mental health, emotional wellbeing, how to be productive, how to not procrastinate… But, also having content that is deeper, such as, ‘How do I heal my childhood traumas or my inner child?’ And, ‘How do I figure out who I am and what my core values are?...and that are not the values that society gave me?’","_fireside":{"subtitle":"Supporting your inner journey to mental health and emotional wellbeing","pubdate":"2023-11-07T08:00:00.000+04:00","explicit":false,"owner":"The LightHouse Arabia","image":"https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/7/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/cover.jpg?v=4"},"items":[{"id":"6d2a0524-b73d-478c-8f11-0087a75c66ff","title":"Episode 32: Holding Space for Pain and Heartbreak","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/32","content_text":"You are feeling painful, difficult, and scary feelings.\n\nI want you to close your eyes and see the emotion inside you and then take a deep breath and I want you to expand all the space around it.\n\nBreathe in through nose and out through the mouth.\nImagine that space growing with every breath.\n\nSo the emotion stays the same but you expand.\n\nMake room for the emotion(s).\nExpand.\n\nYou are not your emotions. You have emotions.\nYou are vast.\nYour spirit indestructible.\n\nI know you don’t like these feelings, I don’t like these feelings too.\n\nThey feel so painful and they feel they are breaking you, but if your heart is capable of feeling them, then you are strong enough to bear them.\n\nSoften into the feeling.\n\nYou can cry… sob… just keep softening with your breath…stay soft..\n\nIt’s ok… let your heart break. I promise, it won’t break down.\n\nThat’s the thing with hearts… the more the break… the bigger and stronger they get… the only way to a resilient heart is to let it feel and let it break.","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eYou are feeling painful, difficult, and scary feelings.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eI want you to close your eyes and see the emotion inside you and then take a deep breath and I want you to expand all the space around it.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eBreathe in through nose and out through the mouth.\u003cbr\u003e\nImagine that space growing with every breath.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eSo the emotion stays the same but you expand.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eMake room for the emotion(s).\u003cbr\u003e\nExpand.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eYou are not your emotions. 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Once… it’s a mistake … twice it’s a mistake… but 3 times it’s a pattern. If you keep making the same mistakes again and again… then you need to understand why and make efforts to change that.","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eOne of the most complicated relationship we have is the relationship to ourselves and then we wonder why we struggle in our relationship to others…if we can’t even be with ourselves, how and why do we expect others to?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhy self-love- you make the world a better place and free the people in your lives when you love yourself.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is *not self-love (hint… it is not selfish)\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is self-love…as I see it, it has 5 aspects self-awareness, self-discipline, self-care, self-compassion, self-acceptance.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat you can do to cultivate love- cultivate self-awareness, be honest with yourself … for that you will need to learn self-soothing, and be compassionate with yourself… meaning hold your self to the highest standards but support yourself as you make mistakes along the way…\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003ePs. 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(Yes I cried and yes I am very ok with crying)\nhow do I make my child less angry ?\n\n\nHow do I get out of my comfort zone?","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eSo much talk about purpose and passion. What if I work and it isn’t my passion but it feeds my family?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eHow do I find my purpose?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhy are relationships so confusing these days?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eHow do I get rid of my anger?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow to sit with difficult feelings… I share my experience of sitting with regret. 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Once… it’s a mistake … twice it’s a mistake… but 3 times it’s a pattern. If you keep making the same mistakes again and again… then you need to understand why and make efforts to change that.","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eOne of the most complicated relationship we have is the relationship to ourselves and then we wonder why we struggle in our relationship to others…if we can’t even be with ourselves, how and why do we expect others to?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhy self-love- you make the world a better place and free the people in your lives when you love yourself.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is *not self-love (hint… it is not selfish)\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is self-love…as I see it, it has 5 aspects self-awareness, self-discipline, self-care, self-compassion, self-acceptance\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat you can do to cultivate love- cultivate self-awareness, be honest with yourself … for that you will need to learn self-soothing, and be compassionate with yourself… meaning hold your self to the highest standards but support yourself as you make mistakes along the way…\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003ePs. Once… it’s a mistake … twice it’s a mistake… but 3 times it’s a pattern. If you keep making the same mistakes again and again… then you need to understand why and make efforts to change that.\u003c/p\u003e","summary":"","date_published":"2023-07-12T09:00:00.000+04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/2c6fe220-17b0-4f7b-a57d-20c44f7fa96d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":55527693,"duration_in_seconds":3470}]},{"id":"8d075b7d-7283-4772-af0f-cf8238415896","title":"Episode 23: Generosity","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/23","content_text":"What does it mean to have generosity of spirit and having greatness of spirit?\n\nWhat can you give/be generous with?\n\n\nYou are a custodian of everything you have/nothing you have belongs to you (time/money/love/belongings/talent/education)\n\n\nWhat is *not generosity?\nIf you expect anything in return- you have lost the benefits of that\n-do it for your karmic account /God/Higher self account\n\nHow can you BEcome more generous?\n\n\nyou are what you repeatedly do - do generosity to be generous\n\n\nI also answered some questions about “boundaries” and “toxic generosity” (not sure what that is but I answered it accordingly)","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eWhat does it mean to have generosity of spirit and having greatness of spirit?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat can you give/be generous with?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou are a custodian of everything you have/nothing you have belongs to you (time/money/love/belongings/talent/education)\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is *not generosity?\u003cbr\u003e\nIf you expect anything in return- you have lost the benefits of that\u003cbr\u003e\n-do it for your karmic account /God/Higher self account\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eHow can you BEcome more generous?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eyou are what you repeatedly do - do generosity to be generous\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eI also answered some questions about “boundaries” and “toxic generosity” (not sure what that is but I answered it accordingly)\u003c/p\u003e","summary":"","date_published":"2023-07-05T09:00:00.000+04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/8d075b7d-7283-4772-af0f-cf8238415896.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":62116196,"duration_in_seconds":3882}]},{"id":"11e8610a-8f0a-40a5-b02d-38a09ffa3637","title":"Episode 22: Forgiveness .. it’s so hard…","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/22","content_text":"If ‘forgiveness’ is hard for you, try saying the word ‘compassion’ or try saying ‘I want to heal’\n\nWhat is it and what is not\nWhy should we do it\nWhat the journey is like\nWhat is pseudo-forgiveness\n\nIt has been a long journey for me to come to the place where I see the value of this ongoing act for my own self…\n\nForgiveness is an act of self love\nIt is a practice of a generous heart\nIt is freeing\nIt is in service of an open and tender heart that loves and lives deeply\n\nWhat you practice gets stronger\nWhat you feed will grow\n\nWhat feelings and thoughts are you practicing and growing?","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eIf ‘forgiveness’ is hard for you, try saying the word ‘compassion’ or try saying ‘I want to heal’\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is it and what is not\u003cbr\u003e\nWhy should we do it\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat the journey is like\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat is pseudo-forgiveness\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIt has been a long journey for me to come to the place where I see the value of this ongoing act for my own self…\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eForgiveness is an act of self love\u003cbr\u003e\nIt is a practice of a generous heart\u003cbr\u003e\nIt is freeing\u003cbr\u003e\nIt is in service of an open and tender heart that loves and lives deeply\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat you practice gets stronger\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat you feed will grow\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat feelings and thoughts are you practicing and growing?\u003c/p\u003e","summary":"","date_published":"2023-06-28T09:00:00.000+04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/11e8610a-8f0a-40a5-b02d-38a09ffa3637.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":55489035,"duration_in_seconds":3468}]},{"id":"ca739850-b66f-40db-bc27-1afa09108a02","title":"Episode 21: Grief, loneliness, trauma- we are all feeling it… we all know it…","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/21","content_text":"I share the framework of Francis Wellers gates of grief - all the grief in us that we have not acknowledged or processed - it’s in all of us\n\n\nWe will all lose someone and something we love. This scares us and we run from acknowledging this. If we soften into it- we might know the depths of love.\nWe all have parts that have never known love. If we grieve the times and experiences where we lost these parts, and show them love and bring these parts to the light of love, we might know integrity and wholeheartedness.\nWe all are grieving the sorrows of the world. What humans are doing to each other, the planet, to animals, to the oceans… if we feel this grief, we might know what it means to be connected.\nWe all are grieving the loss of what we expected but did not recieve. This longing for a ‘home’, this need for belonging- it’s our inheritance and coded into our cellular and spiritual memory. If we tend to this grief we might know the duty we have to each other.\nWe all have an ancestral grief. We are not just a sum of our childhoods, but all the ancestors that came before us. 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Are you deliberate and intentional about who you see and what you do?\nAnd when you are there are you too busy distracted on social media or emails ?\n\nWe do a lot, but we aren’t experiencing a lot… and that experience = connection… and they connection is what we are all longing for …","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eLoneliness and it’s impact on our overall health\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eLoneliness is different from being alone, and it’s different from solitude.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eLoneliness is not just painful but it is also lethal.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eConnecting to ourselves - our bodies, our spirit, our values\u003cbr\u003e\nConnecting to our tribe\u003cbr\u003e\nConnecting to nature\u003cbr\u003e\nConnecting to our community\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThese types of connections are antidepressants and anti-anxiety\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eConsider your time- how do you spend it? 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It will never be ‘settled’… life is unsettling also. Life is imperfect also. Life has bad days also. That is life. I have arrived… and I don’t have to change anything about my life… this is what deep acceptance and surrender must feel like (??!) - it’s a very new feeling for me.\n\nI also speak about intuition/listening to your inner guide/ wise adult/ authentic self/ trusting your decisions etc (which is all the same thing btw)\n\nLet me know your thoughts… and questions ❤️\n\nPS I mentioned Acceptance and Commitment Therapy- there is a level 1 workshop coming up by Dr Daniela Salazar in March see @lighthousearabia\n\nI also mentioned JV - he is a therapist @lighthousearabia - he has workshops he does on Alchemy of Art and also on intuition.","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eOn this live I speak about many things including an insight from my journey abo it the difference between perfect and complete… how since childhood we receive brainwashing from every institution from childhood that what it means to be ‘complete’- and only “perfect” is complete… how 100 out of 100 is complete.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eTo tease apart those two ideas… perfect and complete - is the task of a lifetime.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eI am complete and I am progressing.\u003cbr\u003e\nI am healed and I am healing.\u003cbr\u003e\nI know and I am learning.\u003cbr\u003e\nLife is now and we need a plan.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThat delicate balance of these two ways of life… being and doing.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAnd life… it doesn’t start when things are all settled. It will never be ‘settled’… life is unsettling also. Life is imperfect also. Life has bad days also. That is life. 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The big reactions. 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And holding them, or yourself to an unrealistic standard of perfection hurts them, and you. No one is perfect- especially those that appear it.\n\nWhere there is judgement, there can be no healing… and without healing there can be no tenderness … No openness… no joy... no learning.\nWhere are you judging yourself?\nWhere are you harsh to yourself?\nWhere are you narrow and one sided about yourself or another?\nWhat parts of yourself have you shunned and exiled? What parts do you need to re-member, re-collect, re-integrate through cultivating a loving and compassionate heart.\n\nI know you are worried that you don’t deserve forgiveness bc that might mean you are letting yourself off the hook, or you are worried that you will do something wrong again.\nI know you believe that punishing yourself is the only way you will act in accordance to your values.\n\nDon’t worry, it’s not… trust yourself and know that when you forgive yourself and show up for yourself with love and compassion, curiosity and understanding that you will learn what you needed to learn from that experience …\n\nSelf love begins with self-forgiveness and self understanding…","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eSelf forgiveness\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWe use up ALOT of energy holding down our grudges against self and other…\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAnd in the cancel culture we live in, it’s easy to become hypercritical of others and ourselves.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eBut news flash: All human are fallible- yes even the hero’s and the gurus. 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grow\n\nWhat feelings and thoughts are you practicing and growing ?","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eForgiveness .. it’s so hard…\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIf ‘forgiveness’ is hard for you, try saying the word ‘compassion’ or try saying ‘I want to heal’\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat is it and what is not\u003cbr\u003e\nWhy should we do it\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat the journey is like\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat is pseudo-forgiveness\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIt has been a long journey for me to come to the place where I see the value of this ongoing act for my own self…\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eForgiveness is an act of self love\u003cbr\u003e\nIt is a practice of a generous heart\u003cbr\u003e\nIt is freeing\u003cbr\u003e\nIt is in service of an open and tender heart that loves and lives deeply\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat you practice gets stronger\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat you feed will grow\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat feelings and thoughts are you practicing and growing 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agent on the earth.\nAnd love from another person, when you feel you don’t deserve it or are ashamed inside yourself is the most powerful healing experience.\n\nI talk in this live about\nWhat does acceptance look like?\n\nWhat gets in the way of us experiencing or giving love?\n\nCan you love a person and not accept their behavior?\n\nCan there be love without self love?","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eWhat is love…\u003cbr\u003e\nI am not saying I have figured out the answer, but in this live I share what I know about love.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eSome of what I know so far about love:\u003cbr\u003e\nLove is not a feeling.\u003cbr\u003e\nLove is not demanding of the other person.\u003cbr\u003e\nLove is not forcing them on to your path.\u003cbr\u003e\nLove is tested in times of conflict.\u003cbr\u003e\nBeing loved by another doesn’t mean the experience will always feel good.\u003cbr\u003e\nLoving me doesn’t mean they will do as I say.\u003cbr\u003e\nLove is the most powerful healing agent on the earth.\u003cbr\u003e\nAnd love from another person, when you feel you don’t deserve it or are ashamed inside yourself is the most powerful healing experience.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eI talk in this live about\u003cbr\u003e\nWhat does acceptance look like?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWhat gets in the way of us experiencing or giving love?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eCan you love a person and not accept their behavior?\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eCan there be love without self love?\u003c/p\u003e","summary":"What is love…\r\nI am not saying I have figured out the answer, but in this live I share what I know about love.","date_published":"2023-02-22T08:00:00.000+04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/38d29f03-62ab-44c1-ab4e-df1ec832be50.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":62397064,"duration_in_seconds":3899}]},{"id":"5dd4df0f-8174-4bf1-ae46-4a35e081e3c1","title":"Episode 6: Trauma And The Brain","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/6","content_text":"“Trauma is not what happens to you, it’s what happens inside of you as a result of what happens to you”\n\n-What is trauma,\n-what are the different types of trauma, -what happens in childhood when we experience traumatic events\n\n\nwhat can we do as parents to protect our kids from intergenerational trauma\n\n\nI am doing these talks with a focus on childhood trauma (our childhood and our childrens)\n\nThis IG is one of many I want to do on this topic bc I really feel that the world is becoming more chaotic and the experience of life feels very traumatic for our nervous systems, unless we consciously are engaging in ways to heal, ground, soothe, and process all that we are encountering.","content_html":"\u003cp\u003e“Trauma is not what happens to you, it’s what happens inside of you as a result of what happens to you”\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e-What is trauma,\u003cbr\u003e\n-what are the different 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It may be accompanied by a change in attitude, from positive and caring to negative and unconcerned.\n\nMothers, healthcare workers, parents of special needs children, teachers, mental health workers, carers for elderly parents are just some of the people who are likely to experience chronic stress, and possibly burnout.\n\nThe experience is as if you have nothing left to give.\n\nBurnout is far more serious than being stressed… it is a total shutdown if your nervous system and it can last for many weeks, and months.\n\nI talk about ways you can start to move towards healing… bit by bit… moment by moment … it starts with you caring for and considering yourself along with all the other people you care for and consider. It’s not about choosing yourself only and neglecting others, but choosing yourself *also.\n\n(Also see my other Podcast episodes that talk about pathways to creating safety within your nervous system)\n\ninnerjourney #innerexperience #caregiverburnout #caregiversupport #caregiving #mentalhealthawareness #dubaiwellbeing","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eCaregiver burnout is a state of physical, emotional and mental exhaustion. It may be accompanied by a change in attitude, from positive and caring to negative and unconcerned.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eMothers, healthcare workers, parents of special needs children, teachers, mental health workers, carers for elderly parents are just some of the people who are likely to experience chronic stress, and possibly burnout.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThe experience is as if you have nothing left to give.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eBurnout is far more serious than being stressed… it is a total shutdown if your nervous system and it can last for many weeks, and months.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eI talk about ways you can start to move towards healing… bit by bit… moment by moment … it starts with you caring for and considering yourself along with all the other people you care for and consider. It’s not about choosing yourself only and neglecting others, but choosing yourself *also.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e(Also see my other Podcast episodes that talk about pathways to creating safety within your nervous system)\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch1\u003einnerjourney #innerexperience #caregiverburnout #caregiversupport #caregiving #mentalhealthawareness #dubaiwellbeing\u003c/h1\u003e","summary":"Burnout is far more serious than being stressed… it is a total shutdown if your nervous system and it can last for many weeks, and months.","date_published":"2023-01-11T14:00:00.000+04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/c730bac1-03bf-44a1-a341-b02c3ef715be.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":64790037,"duration_in_seconds":3548}]},{"id":"1675f996-d2fe-4f99-88ba-562937c32477","title":"Episode 4: How to feel feelings","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/4","content_text":"","content_html":"","summary":"","date_published":"2022-12-08T10:00:00.000+04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/73f9111b-cbe4-4e30-8309-504b91fac660/1675f996-d2fe-4f99-88ba-562937c32477.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":84178580,"duration_in_seconds":3507}]},{"id":"2452c1a4-3cdd-4587-8ab3-a88d9f883c4d","title":"Episode 3: Befriending your nervous system part 2","url":"https://dr-saliha-afridi.fireside.fm/3","content_text":"","content_html":"","summary":"Listen to part 1 to know why it’s important\r\n\r\n3 pathways to creating safety for your nervous system\r\n1. 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But today, I wanted to talk about how you begin to recognize when you're in an unhealthy relationship:\n\n1) When you start to feel like everything you do is wrong.\n2) You can't be yourself and, you're constantly compromising.\n3) Your partner disappears for long lengths of time.\n4) You feel drained and exhausted, and you avoid talking about issues.\n5) When you feel the relationship is so one-sided that you become resentful.\n\nIf some of these warning signs are familiar to you, it doesn't mean that you need to pack up your bags and go, but you should definitely be aware that you are in an unhealthy relationship and begin thinking about how you could be in a healthier one.\n\nAnything that is one-sided is unhealthy. A relationship is about 2 people – listening to each other, supporting each other, caring for each other. These are just some things to think about; let me know if you have any questions. #InnerJourney","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eThere are many reasons why we may not have a very healthy model for relationships. But today, I wanted to talk about how you begin to recognize when you\u0026#39;re in an unhealthy relationship:\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e1) When you start to feel like everything you do is wrong.\u003cbr\u003e\n2) You can\u0026#39;t be yourself and, you\u0026#39;re constantly compromising.\u003cbr\u003e\n3) Your partner disappears for long lengths of time.\u003cbr\u003e\n4) You feel drained and exhausted, and you avoid talking about issues.\u003cbr\u003e\n5) When you feel the relationship is so one-sided that you become resentful.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIf some of these warning signs are familiar to you, it doesn\u0026#39;t mean that you need to pack up your bags and go, but you should definitely be aware that you are in an unhealthy relationship and begin thinking about how you could be in a healthier one.\u003c/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAnything that is one-sided is unhealthy. 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